Less complicated

2 of us and a guy. He later asked me if I was dating anyone at the moment. Almost too suddenly I blurted the answer, no. The other friend of mine expressed how she missed being single with a great sigh at every end of a sentence. What is it with people? Someone single wants companionship and those attached dreaming to date again.

We definitely agreed on something by the end of our get-together for lunch. We should just start dating. Forget about serious relationships for a while, till you realise in the end, you keep falling back to his or her arms. Things seem to work out fine in the early stages. No problem at all. Getting to know that person a little more, then, a little bit more. Be mysterious and it never fails to give a little surprise to spark things up a notch. No limits at all and you can date people whom you feel comfortable with.

However, there will be a single one whose extraordinary. Someone whose there for you anytime anywhere. Someone who will share a few jokes and laughter. Someone you can understand almost completely and vice versa. You know you're there for each other. A relationship which is a little more than a close friend. You are dating other people and so is he. Things are much more fun and exciting when you're not a couple. Then you'll have more room to discover what you really want in your future partner. Just look at it as a preparation for a more passionate relationship with your true love.

Meanwhile, enjoy and appreciatte every dating partner. We're all in for the little butterflies in the stomach. Sweet SMS'es. Unexpected phone calls. Sneaky phone talks in the middle of the night. Adventurous outdoor attempts: rock-climbing. Enrolling in dance classes. A couple of drinks. More chats. A quiet dinner in a soothing ambience.

Nothing more....